Sanctuary Club

I love this place! Definitely the most queer and trans-friendly sex club in Portland. The staff are all super nice & responsive to any issue you might have.That being said, the vibe is very dependent on the night, and the people youre with. Youre a lot less likely to get cornered by a creepy dude if you go on a queer night, or with some friends.Also, their lost & found is really good.

Sanctuary is great! Queer-inclusive kink club that puts a strong emphasis on maintaining a consent-based environment. They make sure everyone feels comfortable and accepted, which really enhances the overall experience. The atmosphere is cool and sleek, providing a perfect backdrop for exploration. Its a great place to discover new things and let your freak flag fly

It is the perfect Club to have an inclusive sex event ...the staff is the best and very good at what they do and the drinks are excellent... If you get a chance to go to Sanctuary it would be a fun and exciting and fabulous time.... I went twice for the Horse market

A truly unique and intriguing sex club experience! Open, respectful atmosphere with a diverse crowd. Very clean and safe. Great for exploring new experiences. Highly recommended for the adventurous!

No frills adult club, couple of play spaces with no doors. Some kink equipment. Great vibes, LGBTQ+ and BIPOC friendly. Fun events.

This is one of the most diverse clubs in Portland. Great events through the week, downtown, fair door charge, but gets super busy at 10:30pm or so.

The energy of the place and especially of the staff is amazing. Its easy to tell that they desire to create and maintain a sense of community and a safe container for adult fun. They also have created a welcoming culture for BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, adults of all sizes and ages, and those with mobility challenges.The space itself is accessible. There is an elevator, and it is easy to move around until it gets really crowded. . It would be nice if there were more separate play spaces or a quieter space for conversation. But overall, I had a wonderful time and plan on making this a regular place to hang out

What can i say? This place is great! I had my first club environment experience here and it was a very welcoming and chill atmosphere. My date ended up leaving me rather abruptly and i immediately had some people come support me when they saw my anxiety from being alone. Met some very chill, kind, and interesting people. I was also lucky enough to speak to the owner who was very kind and respectful. I as an anxious and shy person felt very safe and secure here. Will most definetly be returning for more fun nights 🤙

For what Sanctuary provides for people it is a great place. I love that there is no judgement at all and you can feel completely free. And on top of all that you get to sing karaoke naked!!

The food isn’t a good option, drink specials are usually pretty good.Too many men, like with most places like this. Fun themes. Safe space.

This was our first experience at a club. Great experience here on Saturday night. No theme, just regular night. Very eclectic & diverse population. Many LGTBQ. Will be coming back.

This is my girlfriend and mines first time here and we didn’t know what to expect. What we are hoping for was to meet some really cool people and we did just that. The atmosphere was very inviting and relaxed and everybody was very very nice. We ended up meeting some new friends, and even ran into some old ones that we had met at other clubs before. We will absolutely be back for other events

Food can take awhile to come out but it has been improving, the vibe is always fun and theres always something to explore!

I love this place but my only issue is that one of the bartenders told me that I could get refills on my soda and I have a couple times while I was there never had a problem and recently they won’t let me get a refill on my soda and as a sober person it just sucks to pay three dollars for one soda to not even be allowed one refill. And the person who allowed me to get a refill previously was the one who told me that they never done it before and it really sucked to feel gaslit by the bartender and she was really rude about it because she looked at me and said “maybe you’re thinking of another bar it definitely wasn’t here and we’ve never done that before.” Once again I’m sober and don’t drink so I don’t go to bars. It took everything in me to not say “girl it was you last time who gave me a refill” everything else about this place has been so amazing and I appreciate the safety and security that they provide but I stopped going for a bit because it was awkward and it made me anxious to see that person again

This is one of the only adult clubs I visit in Portland. It is very queer friendly, and the facility is usually kept very clean organized events are fun to attend, and I would feel comfortable inviting someone who has never been to a place like this before based on its consistency.

Clean. Fun. Friendly.--Feels like a close friends house party.--Owners are very kind & friendly. Go out of their way to introduce themselves and remember their customers. Treat you like a friend.--Safe place, very comfortable.--Keep Portland Weird (in a good way) place--Various activities/events from dance parties to bored game night. From casual meet & greet to advanced events. The possibilities are endless--Perfect for couples

Small but very well put together club. The interior is lovely. Open concept but put together in a way that feels cozy and intimate. Impeccably clean without the weird sterile feeling. You can tell thought was put into curating the space. Staff is incredibly kind and down to earth.I do wish they didn’t charge so much for local educational groups to use the space but capitalists gonna capitalize. 🤷🏻‍♀️

For people with Covid anxiety, this place is poorly ventilated, they didn’t sterilize the mic between karaoke sets like they do in other places either.Our small group went here and this was the only place we went out publicly for a while - we also work remotely.Tested positive after this meet- a few friends there also had the same experienceBe careful out there. Won’t be going back until they address the ventilation.Really expensive entry fee at doors $$

Went upstairs once. Was surprised at what I saw. Told me karaoke was downstairs. Security wouldnt let me downstairs. Said I

I feel very comfortable here knowing that the staff and DMs are easy to find if I need help. Many great classes and parties offered. Most events cost around $10-$30 depending on the event. Much more affordabld than other venues in Portland. Great place to go socialize, make friends, and take in person classes.

I wanted to add an edit to this since I just moved back to the Portland area and am so excited to be visiting Sanctuary again. They are having all new themed nights and events and honestly after Covid we can all use a little bit of fun! I highly suggest you check out all the amazing things they have going on! I am so grateful to be back in Portland and to have such a wonderful safe environment to be back in again!My fiance and I really do love this place, however were very recently disappointed in the behaviour of the owner. We made plans to be there on new years eve for their Fancy night and were very excited. Mind you we came here many many weekends prior with no issues and had loved it. Well this particular night there was supposed to be a very strict dress code and a much higher door fee....we were very okay with this until we got there and realized that most everyone decided not to follow the dress code like we had and our fancy new years evening was not like it was supposed to be. I didnt intend to be rude so I went and spoke with the girl at the door and told her that this was not what we signed up for and that we wanted our door fee refunded so we could use it to get into a better party. She was great and apologetic about everything, but told me she would have to get the owner so I agreed to wait seeing as I had previously interacted with the owner I figured everything would go fine.....well the owners husband was the one who came out, and was very angry. Raised his voice and talked so disrespectful towards myself about wanting a simple refund due to the dress code not being enforced. Demanded I walk around and show him all the people who werent in dress code and when I refused acted insulted and basically threw the money in my direction. It really put a bad taste in my mouth towards this place considering we had loved coming up to this point ...we havent been back since then and dont know if we will. It was the best sex club we have been to around here and that is why I will still give it 5 stars. Maybe just avoid the male owner if you have issues his wife is much more pleasing to deal with!

Love the place started going back in October of last year and enjoyed I am going to keep on going. Only bad experience I’ve had is that I saw my ex dom at 50 Shades on 1/26/23 not sure what she is going by nowadays but boundaries and consent are not her strong suit. Other then that I really enjoy the place I feel at home there

Disclaimer from the regulars: this is not a strip club, please do not bother the fems for attention. In short: dont be a creepBeen coming here for the last year multiple times a week, and visited once before covid. This place has great staff, a great community, great drinks and amazing bartenders. The owners are amazing and have since become close friends. Ive meet life long friends coming here and have further established deeper roots in the sex community through this place. They kept sturdy with covid rules and hold a good door etiquette, so the majority of creeps dont get in, and if they get in and cause issues, they get kicked out fast. They keep the place clean with frequent sanitation and they ask everyone to change sheets on the furniture after use. This is a no phone zone and furthermore, no photos! So what happens at Sanctuary, stays at Sanctuary. This is a safe place for everyone and if you dont at all feel safe, please approach the staff, owners, or regulars. Surely something will be done.

Sanctuary is an adult nightclub that labels itself as a consent based, sex-positive, sex-possible club, and is very LGBTQ+ friendly. The atmosphere is very welcoming, with friendly staff, comfy couches and loveseats for relaxing, mingling, talking, and even adult play if consented to. The bar which serves both alcoholic drinks and mocktails, also has a limited food menu available. There is furniture designed for accommodating more prurient activities such as impact play, and also hard points for shibari in various locations. There is a dance floor and stage for a DJ, and the sound system is good for the space. Beds for explicitly adult activities feature clean sheets, and are tucked out of the way. Free condoms and towels are available. Most nights have a theme and a cover charge.*Sanctuary is NOT a strip club. Rules are enforced to ensure a safe, welcoming atmosphere for everyone. Dont be a creep.I have been here many times and have nothing but positive things to say about the staff and club itself.

Great atmosphere. This is a sex club/ bar. The decor is tastefully done. The patrons are very respectful and follow the guidelines. And they even have a karaoke night! The drinks are slightly overpriced, but not too far off the average downtown costs.

Came in for the erotic sip & paint..Was fun and different for us... We enjoyed all the positive vibes.. First time painting class... This was fun

Went for a studio 54 night and it was one of the kindest most open experiences I have ever had. Got to dance the night away. This establishment is incredible.

First time here and the staff were very welcoming and friendly. I didn’t feel any pressure to try out different things. Definitely an interesting place to check out while in Portland.

Recently had my first experience here and I will definitely be coming back. Ive spent time in various clubs in Las Vegas & Los Angeles and the feel is different in each. Sanctuary was a pleasant surprise. Even with the pandemic in full swing Sanctuarys staff & patrons were warm and welcoming. I can not say enough about the staff. They answered questions, served drinks, constantly cleaning and disinfecting. All while being friendly and helpful and keeping things fun. There are even themed nights to keep things exciting and new. Im not sure if its due to the pandemic but there were none of the snobs or cliques that can make a club like this hard for new people to be comfortable or feel welcomed. There was a heavy mix of differing age groups and body types with none of the rejection you can see at some clubs. Instead, everyone was happy to be there and just happy to be able to socialize. Even while wearing masks and maintaining social distancing. The club and staff really go above and beyond to keep everyone as safe as possible and to minimalize any risk possible.All in all, I will be going back. I cant wait to see how things are when everything is in full swing and more interaction is possible. Maybe this way it was easier to dip my toes in without it being overwhelming.

My favorite club in Portland!! Alway a comfortable and inviting atmosphere and folks. No membership fee.Just the door cover that is usually $10-$30 depending on event.super affordable! love the emphasis on CONSENT here as well. I just wish they could host events every day.🖤

Reasonably welcoming and friendly. I attended a partner dance class. It was educational and fun. There were a handful of creepy guys aggressively negging, but that isn’t the fault of the business. I’d prefer a few “creeps” than a business that polices what people say.

Sorry no photos were allowed at the club the night we went. My wife and I attended the 11th annual summerween party at Sanctuary first week in July. The club is very well run and the staff were friendly and professional. There are a variety of different types of guests at a this club and we were visitors for this party. We try to attend as many Sanctuary sponsored parties as possible. Brad/Tammy and crew are seasoned event hosts as well as front personalities to a fun lifestyle club. We were impressed at how clean and well run the facility was. One of the most impressive facts about parties at Sanctuary is the caliber of the regular guests. The rules are followed and enforced with no drunk punks spoiling the evening. The private room is cleaned as it is used and the spanking room is well regulated. The Sanctuary owners also throw parties at other venues which are epic to say the least. The Sanctuary decor is tasteful as comfortable with a full service bar and great dance floor but no food that I could see or at least I didn’t see a menu. My wife and I are way out on the outskirts of this lifestyle, even considered vanilla, but we truly enjoy the people that attend this club.

Ive been coming here since they first opened, over 3 years ago. Sometimes as a single male, sometimes as a couple, and sometimes as part of a group. It doesnt matter. I get charged the same door fee as everyone else, without a yearly membership fee. I also get treated the same every time, by both the staff, and guests. No judgements. I love all the different theme nights as well.Covid became a concern, and they closed for awhile. Did an enormous amount of work on the club to make it a safe place to be during these times.I have been to the club several times since it reopened. The Covid protocols are awesome, and Ive always felt safe & comfortable! Ill be back this Friday, Oct. 9th to sing Karaoke!!! 😊

This place has the best events and hottest people. This is sadly the only club where my consent has been violated multiple times, but it was kinda handled. Drinks are more expensive than other clubs, but cover is lower for men. Make sure your shoes arent on the bed and your belongings are neatly together while youre playing if you dont want staff chastising you while youre playing. I watched an S&M scene get really out of hand that wasnt stopped, so Id avoid booze, bondage and beatings from anyone you dont know well.

The only thing I hate about this club, the idea that if you want to join a play,stay out of the room and wait to called. I have been to so many parties and wait to be called, I have never seen people stopping to play and walk outside the room to invite people. I think, people come to these places expecting to be seen and observed. Let people be in the room and wait to be in the room,give people a chance to ask,and if who they ask doesnt want,then a NO will be appreciated. Or you should close all curtains for people playing,otherwise why do I come to an open club and stand as a statue or spectator without saying anything?

My partner and I went to Sanctuary tonight for the Halloween game night. I had a costume that involved having cutouts of words taped all over a slip (Freudian slip). My partner went to the bathroom and a man approached me. He asked me how to join the game of jenga that I was watching, and I said that he just needed to sit down wherever. He asked if he could sit down next to me and i said yes. After a moment he asked what my costume was and I told him I was a Freudian Slip. The word that was taped to my right bre ast came off and he grabbed it and pressed it back on to my bre ast area without asking me. I felt very uncomfortable after that and stopped talking to him.After my boyfriend came back, he encouraged me to talk to the staff so i told a woman who was working there who was very concerned with the situation i described. She went to get the owner. When the owner came, I explained the situation and he asked if he had pressed the piece of paper into my bre ast or had just placed it, and demonstrated by lightly pressing on my breast where the paper was. I told him that it was my breast area and that what he, the owner, just did, also made me uncomfortable. Instead of apologizing he said he’d talk to the guy and walked off.I told my boyfriend I wanted to leave right away. I was very upset. As someone who has experienced se xual viole nce at many points in my life, I had hoped Sanctuary would be exactly what it was named: a Sanctuary for my se xuality. It touts consent, and yet the owner doesn’t practice it or apologize when boundaries are crossed. I would not recommend this place.While I do not think the owner was purposefully being se xual or aggressive with me, it bothered me that he touched me on my bre ast without asking. It also bothered me that it mattered how hard the guy pressed. He did it without asking. That’s what matters.My partner and I go probably every 6 months. We aren’t regulars by any means. But we will not be going back. I would not recommend going if you have considered. It quickly went from a safe consensual space to a place where I felt like I had no voice or control over my body.UPDATEIf you wish to see the photos mentioned below, please visit my profile as they are public.Ive also updated this review to show the response from the owner on a portland poly group where I posted this exact review, which was highly unprofessional and frankly filled with lies (if you look at my costume, there was no way he could have touched one of the pieces of paper and my clavicle). I would also like to note that none of the other owners reached out to me, despite knowing about the situation.

This place was okay its was very small. The only thing I hate is people can just pull there phones 📱 out and take pictures and videos. I rather go somewhere I know people cant take my pictures of me or my friends with out asking.

Very Chill spot, great people, good music, great staff every time we are in Portland, Sanctuary is a definite must.

I freaking love it here, but I dont like having to scream just to carry on a conversation right next to someone else while comfortable on a couch - Music was a bit loud at the time I was there.Everything else was fantastic though, great atmosphere!

When I didnt tip I was told to not come back so I gave them a negative review and now the owner wants to say I was kicked out for harassing women, quality place will not be going anymore.

This is actually a question…me and my fiancé are a young 22 yr old couple and we went to tvr and only saw much older people and people Only looking for a woman to engage with (they have color bands indicating what they want) . Needless to say we were very disappointed and were wondering if this place has more couple friendly & younger crowd?

Naked karaoke Friday is awesome 😎

Definitely our go to club when feeling frisky.I feel like I should start a review by giving a word to people that would be absolutely new going and are nervous (we definitely were!). There is no reason to be! It certainly can be a little overwhelming to walk in and see half naked people being bound by ropes to the ceiling (on occasion), but there is absolutely no pressure.Sanctuarys name is very fitting, for us at least. Its a laid back place to meet new people and have a amazingly sexy time doing so.I think when you review a place you really need to compare it to somewhere else, for us that would be Privata. Why we (a couple) like Sanctuary more is the atmosphere is ALOT more laid back (less formal) and the cost of going (door fees, Privata has membership fees Sanctuary does now), is more fair. The one thing we both like more about Privata is they play music we like more (Hip hop, 80s, dance music ... Not techno ish). Anyways, LOVE SANCTUARY.

They were mean to me said something about a dress code that was not on the website the only thing I saw on the website was dress to impress, attire which will impress and which does not impress nothing about being mandatory.I dont take meds instead of assuming all autistic people take meds address the dress code problem

They do not enforce masking for covid. Many people working there are maskless or wearing chin diapers. I understand you can’t police people but you can set an example yourselves.

Great venue, they always have some type of event each week. I have always felt welcome, respected and comfortable here. Thanks k you for opening such an accepting space for all.

The events here are always a treat! Most recently I took a partner dance class which brought even more connection to one of my relationships. Bonus points for having a blast!

Fabulous in all the good ways! its really pretty extraordinary.. Portland has been crazier than EVAH 💯🙏

Favorite club in Portland, a great experience. The regulars, staff, and owners make it feel cozy.

The dress code is very confusion, saw someone wearing jeans I thought jeans were unacceptable.If you can make your dress code more clear I will more than certainly change my opinion.

Well priced, welcoming and friendly. No putting on airs, just real people doing their thing...free of judgement. It has ambiance and a good overall vibe.

Every night is different, so you just kinda have to see what happens and leave your expectations at the door.

When it it comes to lifestyle Portland has it on lock. Love the Friday meet and greets. Clean, great community, friendly, sexy, safe, kink., LGBTQA, swinger, poly, sexy club, lifestyle

Sometimes you gotta go where everybody knows your name. And they’re awfully glad you came. Great place to drink a beer while shirtless

Best night club ive been to so far in the entire city 90% of the people are approachable, 95% are kind, has specialized nights like game night, low cover fee, clean, and classy.

Been there a few times but Im wondering if its open on days there are no events? Like is there kinky fun even without gamebang going on?

Great atmosphere and peoole ! Staff id always really friendly and everyone always hving a good time. Also very clean and modern!

Everyone is equal here, prices are excellent for a lifestyle venue, and they actively protect and respect their patrons.

Very fun and laid back place with a sexy vibe. Rules are there to be safe and my wife and I loved it there.

Very queer friendly. The staff and the patrons are very nice. Excellent vibe.

Best place for good wholesome fun. Lots of loving folks who know how to have a great time.

Drinks may be a bit pricey, but the staff is the best anywhere. Such a fun place!

Wondering around Portland and found this gem. Great staff, great people and 1 of the best BDSM nights i have ever been to.

Its awesome! The events on special days and hours might be different then reality. Just forewarning!!

Great place. They take your safety and Covid-19 policy seriously. Very comfortable place.

Ive been quite a few of the clubs in the area, and this one. I make a lot of, and then and there is a sense of community.

My first time there! I loved how everyone was happy and so open and beautiful people.

Very nice people and lots of different experiences and my wife loves it as well. We keep coming back

Cool days for fun. I would love to have windows but thats all.

Great people that create a positive place for human sexuality, go see for yourself!!! I hope to meet you there!

Some of the staff don’t wear masks if that bothers you.

First time here...LOVE IT! Super club with great vibes, music and....gorgeous people!

Fantastic club! Nicest people in town, very inclusive and great at throwing parties.

Wonderful place to come explore your sexualality in a safe, clean, and accepting place!

This place is wonderful for my experience it was a very nice place very clean the workers of that place treat you with tremendous politeness.

Amazing staff, owners are friendly and mingle with everyone. Its a must see location.

Great place... Wish I had something similar closer to me.

Super fun and open minded. Go in and learn a few things you never dreamed of!

Sanctuary! 🏳️‍🌈🍋🏴‍☠️🌮

Such a great place for the community

Legit place to go and have some fun

Samctuary Club Is Awesome.

I was AMAZED with the meat!

Its a good swingers club!

Cool place love the atmosphere

Best night club in Portland!

Hmmm 🤔 WOW 🤩! This was MORE than promised...

Friendly LGBTQIA inclusive

Karroke nights is where its at!

Great secret trash room

Not a fan of the ownership.

Highly recommend

This place is awesome.

Going to be excited